I am part of a forum based here in Yokosuka japan. It's a place on the web where a bunch of women post different topics and reply. I like it because if I have a question on this or that it is almost guaranteed that someone on the forum has an answer or knows where to go to get an answer.
A woman posted a topic that her neighbors (she lives in a tower) smoke in their house and the smell is coming into her house, she and her husband are not smokers and they HATE this smell. She wanted to know if she should complain to the housing office about it.
Most people replied, "Yes, complain". While they have the right to smoke, you have the right to not smell it. One woman replied that she smokes in her house and she won't quit for anyone, thank you very much.
This is the same woman (who by her own admission is obese) who complained when a doctor told her and her daughter that her daughter, at 14 and 5'3" and 165 lbs is morbidly obese. And she smokes in her house... I don't know why I'm so perturbed by this lady but I am. I know I am not the healthiest person out there, but this woman got seriously upset on hearing how unhealthy her daughter is. I agree that the doctor's tone and manner were not the best (if her version is accurate) but come on. Is this really a surprise? You are obese and smoke in your home. You obviously don't have the health of your daughter at the top of your list of important things. Your wants and comfort are at the top.
Sorry, I have to vent here, I know a lot of the people on the forum, and this is a really small community, everyone knows each other.